Contacts or number
Add anyone you already know. No public profiles to browse.
Adults 18+ · Private until it’s mutual
Only if they
Only if they
feel it too.
Pick the people you like, privately. If they pick you back for the same thing, you both find out. If not, nobody ever knows it was you.
- Your picks stay private
- Same feelings only
- 18+ only
How it works
Three quiet steps.
- 1
Pick privately
Add someone you know by number, contact or their SecretYes QR, and choose what you’re open to — love, a date, friendship and more.
- 2
They get a hint, not a name
If they’re on SecretYes, their once-a-day summary tells them that someone has a Secret Yes for them. Never who, never what for.
- 3
It’s mutual — or it never happened
If they pick you back for the same thing, a sealed match appears for both of you. Different feelings? Nothing is revealed.
Privacy is the product
No public likes. No popularity score.
One person’s interest never becomes information for someone else unless it’s mutual.
- No public lists of who likes whom
- Anonymous heads-ups — never who, never what for
- Your number is never shown to anyone
- At most one summary text a day — and repeat adding is blocked
Say what you mean
Love, Date, Friend, Chat, Sex or Other — only the same feeling matches.
Discreet alerts
One summary a day at most, vague on the lock screen, never overnight.
Your own QR
Let people pick you by scanning — your number stays hidden.
FAQ
Questions people ask first.
Will someone know that I added them?
Not that it was you. If they’re on SecretYes, their once-a-day summary may say “someone has a Secret Yes for you” — never your name, and never what you chose. Remove the pick within a few hours and it’s never counted.
When does SecretYes create a match?
Only when both people independently pick each other for the same thing. The match stays sealed until you choose to open it.
What if we picked different things?
Nothing is revealed. You’ll each get a short note that feelings didn’t match — your secret stays secret.
Does SecretYes show my phone number?
No. Numbers are only used to verify you and to match picks privately. They’re never shown publicly, and only revealed to a mutual match you’ve chosen to open.
What does my SecretYes QR share?
A simple page with your first name, where people can pick you privately. Your phone number isn’t shown or included.
Is SecretYes for minors?
No. SecretYes is only for adults aged 18 and older.
There’s only one way to know.
Pick privately. SecretYes handles the awkward part.
Open SecretYes