A private answer to an awkward question.
SecretYes is built around one idea: expressing interest should not automatically expose you. A one-sided choice stays private, and even a mutual connection remains anonymous until reveal.
Why SecretYes exists
People often already know the person they are interested in: a friend, someone they met, a familiar contact, or someone they are considering getting to know better. The difficult part is uncertainty. SecretYes is designed to reduce that awkwardness without turning private interest into public social data.
Our product principle
SecretYes should reveal as little as possible until there is a real mutual signal. A one-sided choice stays private. The app is intentionally not a popularity board, public likes feed, or follower system.
Simple by design
We aim to keep the experience focused: choose privately, manage your own choices, and see an anonymous locked mutual only when both sides independently make the same choice.
Adults only
SecretYes is intended only for users who are 18 years of age or older. Age confirmation is part of account setup, and our product and safety policies are designed around an adult-only service.
Privacy and safety
Privacy and safety are core product requirements, not extra features. Read more about our approach on the Safety page, and review our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.